To recap the first post, Caroline was hysterical after Phil was accusing her of having an affair when she was not. He was relentless in his attack, even waking her in the middle of the night to “discuss” it. My conclusion was that she was acting normal under the circumstances. Next, "Caroline" wrote me that she was thrilled to find out that she was normal because her spouse really gave her good reason to yell. Uh-oh. So I wrote another post explaining how I felt about screaming and anger in general.